| Is playing hard to get not suited for your sensibilities? | | | | Playing hard to get is really a matter of keeping your |
| Do you think it's meant for all those women who just | | | | emotions and desires in check. And if you really think |
| want to play a game? Are you smart, pragmatic and | | | | about it, you're really doing yourself a favor. What do |
| efficient, and playing hard to get seems like a waste of | | | | you really know about this guy? Aside from his good |
| time? Get rid of your notion that this is just a silly | | | | looks and pleasant charm when he's with a crowd, |
| game; it's a lot more than that. And when done right, | | | | what is he really like? Perhaps he has an awful |
| it can weed out the scum and leave only the cream of | | | | temper. Maybe he's lazy and is looking for a free ride |
| the crop for you to choose from. | | | | on the back of a hard working woman. He could |
| In essence, playing hard to get is simply a tactic to | | | | even be out just playing with women's heart, crushing |
| avoid appearing too eager, too needy or too | | | | them just because he can. |
| desperate. While you might consider it just plain | | | | By showing him just a hint of interest all while being |
| honest and straight forward to come up to a guy and | | | | only intermittently available to see him, you're dragging |
| say, "I like you and would like to get to know you in | | | | out the courting process and the guys who don't have |
| order to plan for a long term relationship that will last us | | | | what it takes to tough it out will bail out. Only the men |
| a lifetime," it's not romantic. Not exciting. Not fun. | | | | who truly want more will stick it out. |
| On the contrary, as honest as you might think you're | | | | When a man sees that you have a busy life that |
| being, this is just plain scary stuff. | | | | excites you, he becomes excited for you, but also |
| Now don't get too caught up in the actual words… | | | | knows he has to compete with that exciting life in |
| you can remain completely silent and have your | | | | order to see you. |
| actions say that same scary thing. You run to his | | | | Set the bar high and you'll get the man who is up to |
| side whenever he enters, you cling to him for dear life | | | | the challenge. |
| and your eyes scream of your adoration for him. | | | | |