| As the merry-go-round brought you around again and | | | | those that surround women, is not an easy task. Often |
| again, did you lean all the way out to snatch the brass | | | | we need encouragement and some sort of |
| ring or did you just hold your hand out, close your eyes, | | | | reassurance that we are going to be okay. I can give |
| and hope that you caught something on the way by? | | | | you both. You have the power of choice. This means |
| Were you afraid to lean out and grab it because you | | | | that you can choose to let a woman tear you up for |
| might fall or were you afraid that you might actually | | | | not wanting to be around you anymore or you can |
| grab it? | | | | choose to be grateful for the time you had together |
| Women like guys who aren't afraid to lean out and | | | | and move forward with hope and dignity. And of |
| grab the brass ring, especially when the brass ring has | | | | course you're going to be okay. Whenever we make |
| their name on it. In fact, if you're reaching out to grab | | | | moves to become better, stronger, more self assured |
| her, you are likely to win her affection by showing | | | | men we end up okay, even if the improvement is very |
| some guts, giving it your all, and simply not being fearful | | | | small. |
| of the results. Confidence isn't about always getting | | | | Sometimes the real deal is in the details. Maybe you |
| everything you set your sights on, but about not | | | | are okay with reaching out there and trying to grab the |
| allowing the time you didn't get it to cloud your efforts | | | | brass ring but then you aren't sure what to do with it |
| from then on. | | | | once you have it. It's a free ride. Your efforts have |
| The only thing standing between you and a valiant and | | | | already paid off, you've already made a striking |
| applaudable effort is you. You are the only one who | | | | impression with you strength and ability to simply |
| can stop you from leaning all the way and snatching | | | | charge off and grab what looks good. The brass ring |
| the brass ring. Your parents aren't there to tell you | | | | simply means that your hard work, the ice breaking |
| what's dangerous and your friends aren't' the ones | | | | session, is already behind you. When a woman |
| who end up alone if you fail to lean out. So who else is | | | | watches a man fearlessly tackle a task, there is a |
| really worth listening to other than you? In reality, telling | | | | primal response. As much as we have grown in our |
| yourself that you can go get what you want is usually | | | | society and as much as women preach women's |
| the only big boost you really need to get over that | | | | rights to equality and men want less time at the office, |
| hump. Once you start to think that just maybe you | | | | women still often feel a primal and necessary feeling |
| can, the only next reasonable step is to take the leap | | | | of safety and prowess when they watch a man |
| off the cliff and to go for it, in the biggest way possible. | | | | exercising his strengths to the world. |
| Even if your lines are all that smooth or your not | | | | So at this point, you have two options before going |
| looking like the cover of GQ, women are more likely to | | | | any further. You can start grabbing your share of |
| overlook flaws and flawed efforts when the main | | | | everything that looks good to you or you can opt to sit |
| component (which would be guts) is overflowing. I am | | | | back and wait for the right woman to fall into your lap. |
| not talking about that little beer gut, but some downright | | | | Thus far, the waiting strategy hasn't worked out so |
| raw and unshakable nerves of steel when it comes to | | | | well, has it? Then run on out there and grab something. |
| anything and everything. Of course, being bold, brave, | | | | Anything. A new job, a new dog, a new girlfriend, or |
| and daring enough to reach out and grab the brass | | | | even a new wife. Where you start is completely up to |
| ring doesn't just apply to reaching out and grabbing a | | | | you. Practicing a new life of grabbing what you want |
| hottie. It refers to reaching out and grabbing life, all of it, | | | | and getting what you need if only going to help you in |
| from the hottie right on down to the new and | | | | every aspect of your life, not just in one or two small |
| improved job you are seeking. All of these things are | | | | areas. You get to become the man if you choose, and |
| more than possible with a little positive self talk and a | | | | the free ride is usually a ticket for the roller coaster, not |
| little practice. | | | | the merry-go-round. Don't let fear guide you into a life |
| The cool thing about practice is that it doesn't look like | | | | of lonely exasperation. Get out there and do |
| practice to anyone other than you. In fact, by practicing | | | | something to make your presence bigger. |
| what you need in order to snag the right woman for | | | | If you lean too far out and end up falling off the |
| you, you build up a positive energy about going out | | | | marry-go-round, don't expect anyone to stop the ride. |
| there in the world and grabbing what you want. One | | | | But you can still get up, brush off the dirt and mend |
| move leads to the next which leads to the next. It's a | | | | any broken skin, and still catch up and hop back on. |
| fabulous process which comes with the added bonus | | | | Sure, you might be a little embarrassed or at worst |
| of impressing those around you, including the opposite | | | | you might need a few stitches, but one fall doesn't |
| gender. | | | | mean that it isn't worth it. While the free ride is really |
| Perhaps this all sound rather simplified. Maybe you | | | | cool, what is even better is the knowledge that you |
| don't think I understand what it means to be afraid or | | | | have leaned out despite your fears or negative |
| just how bad the last woman who was in your life hurt | | | | expectations and grabbed your share of the goodies. |
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